Radio silence.
That's something that no girl wants to see/hear when admitting something. Like, oh hey, I find it rather hard to talk to you because you're attractive and I'm rather intimidated by your presence.
And then the silence.
Now, many people wouldn't see me as the kind of person that has a problem talking to attractive men. And honestly, I can talk to as many attractive men as I want, until that person actually means something. When I have become friends with the guy, it gets a lot harder to have a conversation with them. At least until a more comfortable relationship has been formed, I get soooooooo nervous around them. Just the other day I was asked by a guy that I find rather attractive why I never talked to him in person. So I told him like it is. I'm the kind of girl that says it like it is. If I find you attractive, you'll know. If I find you annoying, you'll know.
So when it came time for a response, nothing came. I think I literally stopped breathing for a moment.
And then a subject change.
Is it really so hard to tell me what you think of that statement?
I mean eventually he came around to it, but even then, the answer wasn't really one that made sense to me. Honestly, it took a lot of guts for me to say what I did, please don't just leave me hanging. That makes me feel as if I'm in the wrong somehow.
I know that I'm just over thinking the whole thing, but I'm sure I'm not the only one that ever feels this way.
Thoughts?
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